Narcissism can be a nasty defense mechanism. Get rid of your ego, you’ll be much better off in the end. You just have to realize, other people are experiencing life in their own way, and everyone has their own problems to deal with. You look at other peoples differences and you see weaknesses, but how can you possibly comprehend what its like to be them? How do you know you wouldnt think and do the same exact things if you were given their life? Almost everyone thinks deeper about things than they let on.